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Fresh Take: Irin Carmon, UNBEARABLE

October 24, 2025

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  • The American experience of pregnancy is deeply complicated by systemic failures, bias, and changing policies, affecting women across all belief systems, as detailed in Irin Carmon's book *UNBEARABLE: Five Women and the Perils of Pregnancy in America*. 
  • The historical medical takeover of birth, rooted in the marginalization of midwives and eugenics, continues to manifest today in profound racial disparities in maternal mortality, such as those seen in New York City being worse than Alabama. 
  • Criminalization of pregnancy outcomes, including the blurring of lines between medical providers and law enforcement, actively discourages vulnerable individuals from seeking necessary healthcare for miscarriages, addiction, or other complications. 

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Introduction and Book Motivation
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  • Key Takeaway: Irin Carmon’s reporting on reproduction evolved from legal battles to covering structural impacts, culminating in her book after personal pregnancy experiences fostered solidarity.
  • Summary: Irin Carmon initially covered legal battles around abortion before expanding her reporting to how laws and structures affect people’s lives during pregnancy. Her personal pregnancy during the COVID-19 pandemic, marked by fear of isolation and hospital panic, solidified her sense of solidarity with all pregnancy situations. This personal journey motivated her to write UNBEARABLE to show that pregnancy challenges are systemic, not just individual failures.
Personal Pregnancy Context
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  • Key Takeaway: Carmon’s first pregnancy during the NYC COVID epicenter highlighted systemic failures, including potential separation from birth companions and newborns, prompting her to research self-sufficiency options like midwifery.
  • Summary: Carmon had a textbook pregnancy until the COVID-19 lockdown hit in March 2020, causing fear about giving birth alone and separation from her newborn if tested positive. This environment led her to research midwifery and home labor options to minimize hospital time, though she ultimately had a fast birth and was lucky to only stay one night. The subsequent death of Shaja Semple at Woodhull hospital two weeks postpartum spurred Carmon’s deeper reporting into systemic disrespect in birth care.
Impact of Dobbs Decision
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  • Key Takeaway: The overturning of Roe v. Wade during Carmon’s second pregnancy underscored the interconnectedness of all pregnancy situations, even for those in ‘blue states’ where direct abortion bans might not apply.
  • Summary: Carmon’s second pregnancy coincided with the leak and finalization of the Dobbs decision, leading her to believe effects would ripple across all pregnancy decisions, not just abortion access. She emphasizes that systemic problems in maternal care, like racial disparities, exist independently of the Supreme Court’s ruling and are deeply rooted in history. The core message is that no pregnancy experience is immune to systemic issues, as a small change can suddenly make these laws matter to anyone.
Historical Roots of Medical Bias
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  • Key Takeaway: The medical takeover of birth in the 19th century was intertwined with discrediting female midwives and was politically motivated by concerns over race and immigration, setting the stage for current disparities.
  • Summary: The history of childbirth shows that the medical profession took over birth in the 19th century, often smearing midwives while doctors spread infection due to a lack of knowledge about hygiene. This takeover was also driven by political concerns, including controlling reproduction among immigrant and Black populations. This history includes the experimentation on enslaved women by figures like Dr. J. Marion Sims, establishing a legacy of paternalism and disrespect toward the humanity of people who can become pregnant, especially Black women.
Criminalization and Systemic Failures
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  • Key Takeaway: The acceptance of substandard care during pregnancy, including criminalizing women’s behavior post-miscarriage or drug use, stems from undervaluing the mother’s health and autonomy over the theoretical life of an embryo.
  • Summary: The criminalization of women’s behavior, such as jailing Haley postpartum for drug use despite needing care, demonstrates a system that punishes negative pregnancy outcomes while simultaneously restricting access to abortion. When medical providers are incentivized to call the police rather than treat patients, women fear seeking necessary care for miscarriages or other emergencies. This environment prioritizes the appearance of saving a non-viable fetus—sometimes even through unnecessary C-sections—over the mother’s health, wishes, and autonomy.
Hope and Moving Forward
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  • Key Takeaway: Hope for improvement lies in recognizing the shared humanity of all individuals involved in pregnancy and supporting inspiring advocates like Dr. Yashika Robinson and Jose Perez.
  • Summary: Carmon emphasizes that the book is ultimately about humanizing the experience of pregnancy, urging listeners to understand the interconnectedness of experiences regardless of personal judgment. Inspiring figures like Dr. Robinson, who provides comprehensive care despite legal obstacles in Alabama, and Jose Perez, who became an activist after his wife’s death, demonstrate that individual courage can drive systemic change. The goal is to foster a deeper understanding of others’ humanity during this vulnerable time.