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Fresh Take: Catherine Price, THE AMAZING GENERATION

February 27, 2026

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  • Empowering children by explaining the manipulative tactics of Big Tech, rather than simply imposing restrictions, is the most effective strategy for reducing problematic screen time. 
  • The book *The Amazing Generation* uses an allegory of 'Greedy Wizards and the Curse of the Stones' to help kids understand that social media platforms are designed to hook them and profit from their attention. 
  • Adolescence is a critical period for brain development where habitual technology use can hijack the brain's natural pruning process, making it vital for young people to consciously choose what they pay attention to. 

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Introducing The Amazing Generation
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  • Key Takeaway: Catherine Price’s book, The Amazing Generation, is specifically geared toward empowering young people to question Big Tech rather than focusing on parental controls.
  • Summary: The episode introduces Catherine Price and her latest book, The Amazing Generation: Your Guide to Fun and Freedom in a Screen-Filled World, co-written with Jonathan Haidt. The book uses a fable, ‘The Greedy Wizards and the Curse of the Stones,’ as an allegory where stones represent smartphones and wizards represent tech companies. This framework aims to give kids an easy analogy to understand the manipulative design of addictive apps.
Fable’s Allegory and Youth Rebellion
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  • Key Takeaway: The opening fable illustrates how tech companies’ initial promises of freedom and fun devolved into greedily monetizing user attention, sparking a youth rebellion against these lies.
  • Summary: The fable sets up the absurdity of modern smartphone use by imagining wizards promising endless connection but then exploiting users’ attention for profit. A growing number of young people are recognizing these promises are false and are choosing a different path. This narrative invites young readers to join this rebellion against technology designed to hook them.
Practice in Real-Life Social Skills
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  • Key Takeaway: Gen Z members often lack practice in spontaneous social interactions like striking up conversations or making phone calls due to early reliance on phones, leading to avoidance.
  • Summary: A danger for kids who never knew a pre-phone world is not having practice in direct social engagement. Many members of Gen Z report feeling uncomfortable initiating conversations or making phone calls because they haven’t developed those skills. Early intervention can help younger kids avoid these social discomforts experienced by the generation just above them.
Strategy: Empowering Kids to Choose
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  • Key Takeaway: The most effective way to combat technology addiction is by getting children themselves to internally decide they do not want to use addictive platforms.
  • Summary: Catherine Price chose to target kids directly because creating internal desire for change is superior to external mandates, similar to how anti-smoking messages work best when they appeal to the individual’s choice. The book is not a simple adaptation of the adult text The Anxious Generation but a new guide designed to speak directly to kids. The core message is presenting the truth and offering a choice between a screen-filled future and one rich with real-life fun and friendship.
Shared Experiences vs. Separate Screens
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  • Key Takeaway: Communal screen experiences, like watching the Olympics together, are fundamentally different and more beneficial than individuals consuming media separately on their own devices.
  • Summary: The loss of shared cultural experiences, like ‘must-see TV,’ is evident when families watch events like the Olympics separately on their phones. The key is not eliminating all screens, but ensuring that when screens are used (like for a family movie night), they facilitate connection rather than isolation. This shift from individual scrolling to communal viewing can transform screen time into a positive family moment.
Defend Mode vs. Discover Mode
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  • Key Takeaway: Social media primarily drives users, especially teens, into ‘defend mode’โ€”a fearful, anxious state constantly guarding against judgmentโ€”instead of the open, curious ‘discover mode’ needed for real-life adventure.
  • Summary: Discover mode involves being open to new, non-threatening experiences, while defend mode is a defensive state characterized by fear, worry, and rumination. Social media content often subjects users to constant judgment, pushing them into defend mode. The book encourages kids to actively engage in real-life activities to build confidence and reinforce discover mode, making them less fearful of trying new things.
Tech Giants’ Hypocrisy and Secrets
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  • Key Takeaway: Revealing that tech leaders often forbid their own children from using the addictive products they create is a highly effective way to expose hypocrisy and gain children’s buy-in against Big Tech.
  • Summary: The strategy of framing tech companies as tricksters, similar to effective anti-smoking campaigns, works better than simply warning kids that products are bad for them. The book outlines five secrets, with the most impactful being that leaders like Steve Jobs restricted their children’s access to their own devices. This revelation of hypocrisy resonates strongly with kids, shifting the conflict from parent-vs-child to ‘us versus the tech companies.’
AI Skepticism vs. Social Media Acceptance
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  • Key Takeaway: Younger generations are showing a healthy, immediate skepticism toward Artificial Intelligence that was notably absent when social media was first introduced, suggesting a cultural shift in trust.
  • Summary: While being better at spotting AI fakery is good for avoiding scams, excessive cynicism can lead to distrust in everything. However, the immediate negative reaction (booing ads) to AI during events like the Super Bowl suggests young people are less willing to blindly accept Big Tech’s promises now compared to the early days of social media. This emerging skepticism is a heartening sign for future technology adoption.
The Rebel’s Code and Brain Protection
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  • Key Takeaway: The ‘Rebel’s Code’ instructs young people to use technology only as a tool and actively fill their lives with real friendship, freedom, and fun to protect their developing brains.
  • Summary: The final section of The Amazing Generation provides a step-by-step plan for joining the youth rebellion, centered on the two principles of the Rebel’s Code. The most crucial element is educating kids that their early adolescence is when their brain is pruning and forming its adult structure, making them highly vulnerable to tech companies hijacking this process. Protecting the brain means consciously choosing habits like reading or playing music over handing over control to addictive products.
Paying Attention to Attention
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  • Key Takeaway: Life outcomes are fundamentally determined by where one directs their limited attention, meaning every decision about what to focus on is a major life decision.
  • Summary: The core message, echoing William James, is that ‘our lives are what we attend to,’ as we only experience and develop skills related to what we pay attention to. If individuals do not consciously decide where to allocate their attention, companies like Big Tech will make that decision for them, prioritizing their profit over the user’s interests (like practicing guitar). This realization empowers kids to protect their limited time and attention resources.