Call Her Daddy

Offset: Relationships, Risky Texts & Rap (FBF)

February 6, 2026

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  • Offset's realization of his career success occurred while incarcerated, highlighted by a guard singing Migos' song "Versace." 
  • Authentic connection in relationships, particularly with Cardi B, is rooted in shared values like family dedication and mutual determination, not just fame. 
  • When addressing sexual dissatisfaction, men need to be taught specific techniques gently, as roughness or lack of focus on female pleasure (like the clitoris) leads to disappointment. 
  • Offset believes that if a partner rushes past foreplay to immediately engage in intercourse, it signifies poor sexual performance. 
  • Offset's new album, *Set It Off*, was intentionally crafted to be fun and free, despite recent serious life events, aiming to showcase his personality beyond speculation. 
  • Offset emphasizes that women are crucial to his success, actively including female artists on his album and encouraging his female audience to support him by using his music in their content. 

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Offset’s Fashion Philosophy
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  • Key Takeaway: The number one fashion mistake men make is buying head-to-toe looks off a mannequin, often prioritizing visible designer logos over true style.
  • Summary: Men often struggle with fashion due to insecurity, leading them to copy mannequin displays entirely. Over-relying on loud designer prints is discouraged; subtle, quality pieces are preferred. Thrift store finds can outdress excessive designer wear if styled correctly.
Dating Icks and Fashion
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  • Key Takeaway: Tight, light-colored khakis (slacks) are a significant turn-off for Alex, contrasting with Offset’s acceptance of Uggs for confident men.
  • Summary: Alex finds tight, light-colored khakis unattractive on men, recalling their prevalence in prep school settings. Offset finds Uggs acceptable if the wearer possesses enough confidence. Conversely, Offset dislikes women wearing dirty, beat-up Air Force 1 sneakers.
Young Offset’s Childhood
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  • Key Takeaway: Young Offset was initially insecure in elementary school due to struggling financially, but he became popular by middle school after puberty and gaining toughness.
  • Summary: In elementary school, Offset was teased for his clothes because his mother struggled financially. By middle school, he became more popular through sports and developing a tougher demeanor. He won ‘best dressed’ senior year after acquiring Gucci, suggesting his focus on appearance was always present.
High School Superlatives and Teachers
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  • Key Takeaway: Offset believes his peers would have labeled him as someone preparing for success due to his early adoption of grills and chains, while also noting teachers predicted he would end up in trouble.
  • Summary: Offset felt his early focus on appearance (grills, chains) signaled his future in the industry. He recalls a teacher, possibly named Deborah, who was verbally critical, predicting failure. Offset views such negative teacher comments as emotionally abusive, especially when coming from trusted guides.
Offset’s Career “Made It” Moment
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  • Key Takeaway: Offset’s true “I made it” moment occurred while incarcerated for eight months when a guard was singing their song “Versace” during morning count.
  • Summary: Offset was unaware of the song’s massive success until he heard a guard singing “Versace” while he was in jail. This experience, coupled with seeing many women lining up for visitation, confirmed the song’s impact. Serving time slowed him down, preventing him from becoming too wild upon release.
Migos Legacy and Family Values
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  • Key Takeaway: Offset cherishes the time spent with his Migos brothers and the influence the group had on hip-hop more than any specific achievement.
  • Summary: Offset values the brotherhood and the influential impact Migos had on music and culture coming from Gwinnett County. He prioritizes family values, noting Cardi B’s dedication to supporting her family as a key reason he knew she was ’the one.’ They actively plan their business to ensure their children are not forced into the music industry.
Crazy Ex-Girlfriend Story
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  • Key Takeaway: A former girlfriend destroyed Offset’s valuable shoe collection by dumping his entire closet into the pool due to cheating speculations.
  • Summary: An ex-girlfriend, upset over cheating speculations, placed all of Offset’s clothes and shoes into the pool while he was gone for three days. The water damage ruined rare and expensive items, causing him significant distress. This event occurred before he met his wife, Cardi B.
Rebuilding Trust in Marriage
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  • Key Takeaway: Reestablishing trust after infidelity requires the offending partner to respect the other’s need for healing time and prioritizing open, consistent communication.
  • Summary: Offset emphasizes that infidelity is selfish, and the partner who cheated must give grace and time for the other to heal without constant pressure to “get over it.” He stresses that communication is key, requiring both partners to openly discuss disagreements and find moments to connect despite busy work schedules. He notes that the public narrative often ignores the hard work couples put into rebuilding.
Advice on Pornography Use
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  • Key Takeaway: If a partner watches pornography even when having sex, the non-watching partner should investigate the specific content being viewed to understand what needs to be incorporated into their sex life.
  • Summary: Snooping is a violation, but if a partner is watching pornography while in a relationship, it suggests an unmet need in the bedroom. Instead of withholding sex, the partner should observe the content to learn what specific acts might be desired. If the partner is still watching pornography when they are with you, it means you have a ‘good one’ who is at least staying faithful.
Advice on Drunk Texting
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  • Key Takeaway: Sending 25 explicit texts, including a nude from a bar bathroom, is excessive, and a simple ‘LOL, whoa’ response suggests the guy may not be serious about the connection.
  • Summary: Sending numerous explicit messages while heavily intoxicated is considered going ‘crazy’ by Offset. A minimal response like ‘LOL, whoa’ indicates the man might not be reciprocating the intensity or seriousness of the expressed desires. The woman should not have to go that hard, especially if the relationship hasn’t progressed to physical intimacy.
Advice on Giving Oral Sex
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  • Key Takeaway: When giving oral sex, men must be gentle, use their hands, focus on the clitoris (the ‘key to the mansion’), and avoid being rough or using teeth.
  • Summary: Women must teach their partners how to perform oral sex correctly, emphasizing light touch over roughness, as many men mistake intensity for skill. Men often focus too much on their own performance or trying to make a woman squirt, forgetting that pleasure must be prioritized. The goal is to make the partner ‘cry to the dick,’ indicating supreme satisfaction without pain or aggressive technique.
Critique of Foreplay Techniques
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  • Key Takeaway: Rushing to intercourse indicates poor sexual technique.
  • Summary: If a partner pulls away from foreplay to immediately engage in intercourse, it signals that their initial efforts were inadequate or unsuccessful. Sex should be enjoyable and long, and being pulled up suggests the partner’s technique is ‘whack.’ Specific complaints included stopping oral stimulation prematurely and using teeth inappropriately, likened to ‘munching on my shit’ like a grilled cheese.
Offset’s Album ‘Set It Off’
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  • Key Takeaway: The album Set It Off prioritizes fun and freedom over seriousness.
  • Summary: Offset wanted the album to be fun and free, countering expectations that he would make a serious project due to recent life events. The title Set It Off means to ‘set this bitch off’ against haters and speculations, allowing people to dive into his personality. He worked on the project for two and a half years, navigating legal problems, and feels confident that the music is ‘fired.’
Favorite Album Tracks and Collaborations
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  • Key Takeaway: The song ‘Worth It’ featuring Don Toliver is recommended for a female audience.
  • Summary: Offset highlighted ‘Worth It’ (Track 3 with Don Toliver) as a favorite, describing it as a vibe rather than a trap record, suitable for women. He also mentioned the tracks with Travis Scott (which had a music video shot in Thailand), ‘Freaky,’ and ‘Jealousy’ featuring his wife. Working with his wife is always fun, characterized by being lit and having drinks in the studio.
Creative Control and Vision
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  • Key Takeaway: The most rewarding aspect of his solo work is having serious consideration for his creative vision.
  • Summary: Offset values having his own team that understands his language, allowing him complete control over his creative output. He challenges himself by watching film and has personally directed and shot all his music videos, including hiring the staff. This hands-on approach ensures his creative vision is taken seriously, contrasting with creators who just show up to perform their lines.
Message to New Listeners
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  • Key Takeaway: Offset wants new fans to accept his raw, open personality beyond just his music.
  • Summary: Offset stated he is giving an ‘open jar’ of himself in the interview, insisting that nothing be edited out to ensure authenticity. He wants people to see him as a fun person, not boring, after shadowing himself for a long time by not talking much. He acknowledged that women support artists more than men, which is why women run music, and he included five female features on his album to support them.
Album Promotion and Fan Interaction
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  • Key Takeaway: Offset explicitly asks his female audience to support the album release on social media.
  • Summary: Offset urged fans to buy the Set It Off album released on Friday the 13th, emphasizing that women’s support is vital to his success. He wants women to use his music while doing their makeup or dancing, encouraging them to film TikToks with the songs in the background. He promised to actively engage with and like fan-created content on TikTok and Instagram.
Podcast Studio Appreciation
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  • Key Takeaway: Offset complimented the host’s studio decor and conversational style.
  • Summary: Offset appreciated that the interview felt like a good conversation rather than a questionnaire, noting the vibe created by the setting. He complimented the decor, furniture, and books in the studio, specifically pointing out the presence of ‘Pussypedia.’ He also accepted an offer for Call Her Daddy merchandise.