The Joe Rogan Experience

#2468 - Luke Grimes

March 13, 2026

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  • Luke Grimes discussed the overwhelming stage fright he experiences when performing his music live, contrasting it with his comfort in acting, which he has done for over 20 years. 
  • The conversation highlighted the immense, almost impossible workload and productivity of Taylor Sheridan, the creator of 'Yellowstone' and 'Lawmen: Bass Reeves' (referred to as 'Marshals' in the show notes). 
  • Both Joe Rogan and Luke Grimes agreed that losses, such as bombing on stage or experiencing a breakup, are crucial for developing emotional resiliency and forcing self-improvement. 
  • Experiencing loss and failure, whether in relationships or performance like comedy or fighting, is crucial for developing emotional resiliency and self-understanding. 
  • Mastery in high-level disciplines like Jiu-Jitsu or professional fighting requires extreme, near-total dedication, as exemplified by figures like Gordon Ryan and the historical dedication of boxers like Sugar Ray Robinson. 
  • Learning a difficult skill like Jiu-Jitsu provides a mental framework that makes the stresses of everyday life, such as fame or career challenges, feel significantly easier to manage. 
  • The difficulty and profound mental/physical rewards of elk hunting in Montana are contrasted sharply with whitetail hunting, requiring intense physical conditioning. 
  • The creative process for both music songwriting and stand-up comedy relies heavily on showing up consistently to receive ideas from an external source, often under pressure. 
  • The conversation explored the dangers of hard drugs like cocaine and heroin, noting that while some artists thrive creatively while using them, sobriety often leads to a loss of that creative spark for others. 
  • The conversation heavily critiques the perceived inauthenticity of modern digital information, exemplified by skepticism towards Bigfoot evidence and the limitations of AI in appreciating genuine human experience and art. 
  • The speakers express a growing distrust in established institutions and official narratives, attributing it to increased access to information revealing past government deceptions, contrasting sharply with the perceived authenticity of remote, nature-centric living. 
  • Luke Grimes shared a personal anecdote where a shared psychedelic experience seemingly confirmed his and his wife's decision to move to Montana, suggesting a spiritual connection to the wilder parts of the country. 

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Yellowstone Creator’s Work Ethic
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  • Key Takeaway: Taylor Sheridan’s prolific output, including writing multiple television shows single-handedly, is considered by Luke Grimes to be an impossible level of productivity.
  • Summary: The conversation touched upon the success of ‘Yellowstone’ and the overwhelming productivity of creator Taylor Sheridan. Grimes expressed surprise that Sheridan, known for his Oscar-nominated film work, was writing a television show. Sheridan’s ability to write numerous television shows single-handedly was deemed an ‘impossible’ feat by Grimes.
The Appeal of Unforgiven
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  • Key Takeaway: Clint Eastwood’s ‘Unforgiven’ is lauded as the greatest Western movie of all time for realistically depicting the hardships of the era.
  • Summary: The discussion briefly pivoted to the film ‘Unforgiven,’ which Joe Rogan incorrectly attributed to Taylor Sheridan before clarifying Clint Eastwood directed it. The film was praised for showing what life was likely really like in the Old West, focusing on the hardships and the reality of being a killer. The character’s transformation from a timid man to a killer after drinking whiskey was noted as a crazy premise.
Taylor Sheridan’s Background
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  • Key Takeaway: Taylor Sheridan’s massive ambition stems from his ‘rags to riches’ background, having struggled financially until he was nearly 40.
  • Summary: Luke Grimes described Taylor Sheridan as a ‘real freak’ whose background story is fascinating, involving a period of scrambling until he was almost 40. This past poverty is suggested as the source of his immense ambition, driving him to ‘keep his foot on the gas’ once he had a child on the way.
Avoiding Golf Addiction
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  • Key Takeaway: Joe Rogan actively avoids playing golf due to his addictive personality, fearing the significant time commitment required to become proficient.
  • Summary: The conversation humorously turned to hobbies, with Joe Rogan stating he avoids golf because it is a six-hour commitment and he is an addict who would immediately aim for the PGA. Rogan prefers pool, which he admits is also an addiction, but one that allows for shorter sessions.
Music Career Start and Stage Fright
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  • Key Takeaway: Luke Grimes began his professional music career, including touring, at age 39, experiencing severe stage fright that was worse than his fighting anxiety.
  • Summary: Managing acting, music, and fatherhood is proving difficult for Grimes, though the music side has less pressure as it is a passion project. He revealed his first live singing show was at 39, causing him to black out from nerves, a feeling he still deals with, especially since he was previously only a drummer.
Oliver Anthony’s Rapid Rise
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  • Key Takeaway: Oliver Anthony’s first live performance was in front of a gigantic crowd (around 20,000 people) immediately after his song ‘Rich Men North of Richmond’ went viral.
  • Summary: The discussion contrasted Grimes’ slow entry into music with Oliver Anthony’s instant fame from one song, leading to massive crowds for his first shows. Rogan advised Anthony not to sign early record deals, calling industry people ‘vampires’ trying to suck on his neck, emphasizing that talent will always find a way.
The Nature of Acting Careers
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  • Key Takeaway: The acting industry in Los Angeles often fosters groupthink and conformity driven by the desperation of individuals seeking attention they lacked in youth.
  • Summary: Rogan described the LA acting scene as full of people trying to become the same person based on what producers want, contrasting it with the raw authenticity of fighters and comedians. He noted that successful comics often temper their material to avoid trouble, locking themselves into a ‘velvet prison.’ In contrast to music, acting still requires being chosen by gatekeepers.
Montana Life vs. LA Life
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  • Key Takeaway: Living in Montana provides a centering, humbling experience due to the constant presence of spectacular natural beauty, which is the opposite of the stressful environment in Los Angeles.
  • Summary: Luke Grimes moved to Montana during the pandemic and finds the environment magical, noting that the mountains center and humble him daily. He contrasted this with LA, where going anywhere was stressful, though he must remain discreet about his exact location due to local resentment toward newcomers. He also mentioned locals writing ‘Go Back’ on out-of-state rental cars.
Resiliency Through Heartbreak
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  • Key Takeaway: Emotional resiliency is developed by processing painful moments, including relationship losses, which forces self-reflection on personal flaws.
  • Summary: Devastating moments, especially in youth, teach the importance of developing emotional resiliency as time reveals that such moments are temporary. Loss prompts necessary self-inquiry regarding selfishness or poor partner selection, encouraging time alone for self-discovery. Learning these lessons through experience is vital for navigating life.
Fighters’ Post-Loss Evolution
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  • Key Takeaway: A significant loss in competition, like a comedian bombing, can either destroy confidence or serve as a powerful catalyst for emerging as a better version of oneself.
  • Summary: For fighters, a loss can be a career-defining moment, either permanently damaging confidence or leading to a ’new version’ emerging in the next fight. Charles Oliveira is cited as the prime example, transforming from a perceived quitter to a terrifying competitor. This transformation demonstrates that failure can force necessary adjustments and improvements.
Jiu-Jitsu Learning Curve
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  • Key Takeaway: Achieving intuitive competence in Jiu-Jitsu takes significant time, and even black belts can be completely dominated by higher-level practitioners like Gordon Ryan.
  • Summary: Starting Jiu-Jitsu later in life means a long period before movements feel intuitive rather than chaotic, as the skill has many layers of mastery. Gordon Ryan, considered the greatest grappler ever, trains 365 days a year, twice or thrice daily, to maintain his elite status. Even world champions can be completely humiliated by practitioners operating at the absolute peak of the sport.
Anthony Bourdain’s Dedication
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  • Key Takeaway: Anthony Bourdain became a dedicated Jiu-Jitsu practitioner later in life, training rigorously and incorporating it into his travels worldwide.
  • Summary: Bourdain started Jiu-Jitsu seriously around age 58 after his wife introduced him to the sport, transforming from a non-athletic lifestyle. He became addicted, training daily, sometimes twice a day, and sought out gyms globally while filming his shows. His commitment shows that significant physical dedication is possible regardless of starting age.
Benefits of Early Martial Arts
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  • Key Takeaway: Early exposure to martial arts like Jiu-Jitsu builds confidence, provides a positive focus to avoid negative habits like drug addiction, and teaches de-escalation.
  • Summary: Knowing how to fight provides children with confidence and can deter others from initiating conflict due to reputation. Furthermore, the discipline required for martial arts can serve as a positive outlet, making it difficult to simultaneously pursue destructive habits like drug use. Skilled individuals can often avoid fights entirely by recognizing threats and maintaining quiet confidence.
Street Fights vs. Organized Combat
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  • Key Takeaway: The best lesson fighting teaches is how to avoid fighting, as true martial artists rarely engage in pointless street altercations.
  • Summary: Skilled fighters generally avoid street fights because they understand the pointless risks, such as fatal head injuries from falls or malicious stomping when an opponent is down. Organized fights are fundamentally different, representing high-level problem-solving under agreed-upon rules, unlike chaotic street violence. Engaging in a fight is the only way someone without skill is likely to get hurt by a trained person.
Mike Tyson’s Unstoppable Era
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  • Key Takeaway: Mike Tyson’s terrifying dominance in the late 1980s stemmed from absorbing the knowledge of boxing history, psychological conditioning, and intense focus.
  • Summary: Tyson’s trainer, Cus D’Amato, acted as a psychologist and adopted him at 13, programming him with intense mental fortitude and unique philosophies. Manager Jim Jacobs provided an immense library of historical fight footage, allowing Tyson to absorb techniques from legends like Jack Johnson and Jack Dempsey. This combination of psychological programming and historical knowledge made him an unbeatable ‘demon’ before he even entered the ring.
Evolution of Combat Sports Skill
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  • Key Takeaway: Modern combat athletes possess vastly superior skill levels compared to past generations because they have constant access to footage of elite performances for imitation and study.
  • Summary: The availability of fight footage allows contemporary athletes to absorb the elite level of performance from previous eras, accelerating skill acquisition. Young fighters imitate their heroes, leading to a magnitude greater skill level in MMA today compared to the sport’s early days. This constant access to high-level examples contrasts sharply with older eras where exposure was limited to local competition.
Ukrainian Boxing Style
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  • Key Takeaway: Ukrainian boxers like Lomachenko and Usik utilize a highly movement-based, technical style derived from rigorous, disciplined training methods.
  • Summary: Vasiliy Lomachenko’s unique movement, footwork, and angles were influenced by two years of mandatory Ukrainian dance training, making his movement look unreal. Oleksandr Usik employs a similar style because he was trained by Lomachenko’s father, effectively being a heavyweight version of that movement pattern. This Soviet-style discipline emphasizes constant movement and precise technical striking, contrasting with more rigid, forward-moving American styles.
Gracie Family’s Martial Arts Impact
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  • Key Takeaway: The Gracie family fundamentally changed martial arts by concentrating on and perfecting ground submissions, creating Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu which proved superior in early no-rules contests.
  • Summary: The Gracie brothers competed in no-rules fights in Brazil starting in the 1930s, honing submission techniques derived from Judo. They created Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, which became far more technical than its Japanese counterpart, proving its effectiveness in the first UFC events via Royce Gracie. Hickson Gracie, considered the family’s best fighter, was undefeated and a massive superstar in Japan during the Pride FC era.
Choosing Hardship for Life Ease
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  • Key Takeaway: Voluntarily engaging in extremely difficult physical and mental challenges, like high-level martial arts, makes the ordinary stresses of life significantly easier to tolerate.
  • Summary: Tapping out in a submission is the ultimate act of surrender, signifying that one’s opponent has ‘killed’ them, which is a profound mental test. By choosing a discipline that is maximally difficult on the body and spirit, all other life challenges, such as fame or career stress, become easier to manage. This practice fosters humility and prevents intoxication from external validation.
Neighbor’s Shooting Range
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  • Key Takeaway: A neighbor in Montana possesses an extensive, 500-yard shooting range equipped with a vast collection of firearms.
  • Summary: The guest mentioned his next-door neighbor in Montana has a 500-yard range in his backyard. This neighbor owns virtually every type of firearm imaginable, allowing for casual shooting sessions. This highlights a certain aspect of life and community in Montana.
Deer Collision and Rut Behavior
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  • Key Takeaway: Deer are a significant hazard on Montana roads, especially during the rut when bucks become distracted and reckless.
  • Summary: A 70-year-old man survived hitting a deer on a bike, demonstrating the prevalence of deer encounters. Deer are described as frequently appearing on certain roads, particularly during the rut. During the rut, bucks behave erratically, sometimes standing in the road and staring at vehicles because they are preoccupied with mating.
Hypothetical Human Rut
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  • Key Takeaway: If humans experienced an annual, synchronized rut like deer, it would cause societal chaos, leading people to isolate themselves during that period.
  • Summary: The speakers speculated on the chaos if humans had a once-a-year mating season (a rut). This hypothetical event would likely lead to increased crime or accidents, prompting people to hide in bunkers for a month. This concept was deemed a viable movie idea, suggesting a massive, annual distraction from productivity.
Antler Growth and Hunting Difficulty
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  • Key Takeaway: Elk antlers are the fastest-growing bone material on the planet, and elk hunting requires significantly more physical preparation than whitetail hunting.
  • Summary: Elk antlers are noted as the fastest-growing bone material, capable of growing to massive sizes in just a couple of months. The speaker detailed his grueling conditioning routine, including Tabata sprints and weighted carries, necessary for elk hunting in Montana’s high elevation. Hunting elk is described as brutally difficult, unlike the whitetail hunting the speaker experienced in Ohio.
Layering and Merino Wool for Cold
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  • Key Takeaway: Proper dressing for mountain hunting involves dressing to be cold initially, utilizing merino wool base layers because they manage sweat and temperature better than cotton.
  • Summary: Dressing for mountain hunting requires starting cold because body heat increases rapidly while hiking, necessitating layers that can be added when stopping. Merino wool is essential because, unlike cotton, it does not cause chilling when wet from sweat. Wool base layers help regulate temperature, keeping the wearer cool when sweating and warm when cold.
Elk Hunting Experience and Reward
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  • Key Takeaway: The majesty of early morning glassing during elk season provides an unparalleled feeling of being alive and disconnected from regular life’s distractions.
  • Summary: The experience of elk hunting, especially glassing at sunrise, is described as a necessary ‘vitamin’ that makes one feel mentally well and focused. The difficulty of the hunt—managing the wind, stalking, and executing a precise shot—makes success an incredibly rewarding feeling. This immersion in nature strips away mental distractions, making the participant feel truly alive.
Remote Connectivity Technology
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  • Key Takeaway: Starlink Mini provides incredible high-speed internet in remote locations, and emerging T-Mobile satellite service will soon offer basic texting connectivity directly to phones.
  • Summary: The Starlink Mini device is praised as ’the shit’ for providing high-speed internet even in the middle of nowhere, using an app to point the small unit correctly. T-Mobile is rolling out satellite service that will allow texting, though initially limited, potentially offering connectivity everywhere. This technology addresses the need for communication even when deep in the woods.
Creative Process: Songwriting vs. Jokes
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  • Key Takeaway: Songwriting often involves collaboration and capturing fleeting ideas, whereas stand-up joke writing is a rigorous, essay-like process of deep rumination and refinement.
  • Summary: Songwriting can start with a melody, riff, or lyric, often finished alone or collaboratively in Nashville, focusing on making something from nothing. Joke writing, conversely, involves writing long-form essays to explore an idea from every angle, extracting one perfect paragraph to build the bit around. Both processes share the belief that good ideas arrive from an external source, requiring the creator to simply show up.
Pressure Cooker Album Creation
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  • Key Takeaway: The guest’s latest album was written almost entirely the day of or the night before recording under intense time pressure to ensure the subject matter, related to grief, remained truthful and un-overthought.
  • Summary: The recording process for the new album involved writing eight out of ten songs immediately before tracking, avoiding pre-written demos to maintain authenticity. This ‘pressure cooker’ method prevented the songs from becoming stale or gimmicky, forcing the writers to tell the truth directly from ‘heart-brain tape.’ This mirrors the comedy process where testing material live helps find the best beats under pressure.
Substance Use and Creativity
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  • Key Takeaway: While some legendary artists produced great work while heavily intoxicated, sobriety can sometimes cause a loss of the creative connection, though avoiding hard drugs is crucial to maintaining ambition and avoiding becoming a ’loser.'
  • Summary: The discussion touched on artists like Stephen King and Richard Pryor whose great work coincided with heavy substance abuse, suggesting a link between being ‘obliterated’ and accessing creativity. The guest noted that for him, quitting drinking was necessary to avoid the debilitating hangovers that interfere with parenting and fitness goals. Avoiding hard drugs was a conscious choice rooted in the fear of losing ambition and becoming a loser, as witnessed in a friend’s cocaine addiction.
Alcohol Mitigation and Jean-Claude Van Damme
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  • Key Takeaway: Hydration and electrolytes are key to mitigating hangovers, exemplified by Jean-Claude Van Damme’s disciplined approach of drinking a gallon of water while consuming alcohol.
  • Summary: Strategies to mitigate hangovers include using glutathione and prioritizing electrolytes, as dehydration is a major factor in feeling unwell. Jean-Claude Van Damme was observed drinking a gallon of water for every shot taken while drinking, demonstrating extreme hydration discipline. Getting drunk, rather than moderate drinking, is identified as the primary problem leading to negative consequences.
Grizzly Bear Encounters and Fear
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  • Key Takeaway: Grizzly bears exhibit a distinct, predatory focus on humans compared to black bears, and bear spray is often ineffective against large grizzlies.
  • Summary: Grizzlies look at humans with a locked-on gaze, unlike black bears which appear more curious or eager to leave. A guide’s shotgun blast and bear spray failed to deter a large grizzly, highlighting the animal’s immense power and lack of fear toward humans in areas like Montana and Wyoming. The speaker prefers the relationship in Alaska where bears are more wary of people due to hunting pressure.
Bigfoot Origins and Megafauna Extinction
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  • Key Takeaway: The existence of Bigfoot may be rooted in the ancient North American presence of Gigantopithecus, whose extinction likely coincided with the Younger Dryas impact event.
  • Summary: The prevalence of Native American names for a large, hairy wild man suggests Bigfoot may have been a real creature, possibly the bipedal Gigantopithecus from Asia. The extinction of North American megafauna, including mammoths and the American lion, around 11,800 years ago is often attributed to the Younger Dryas comet impact. This impact event, which formed the Great Lakes, may have also wiped out any remaining Gigantopithecus populations.
Bigfoot Sightings and Skepticism
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  • Key Takeaway: Black bears standing on two legs, especially when injured, can easily be mistaken for Bigfoot in dense Pacific Northwest forests.
  • Summary: A convincing Bigfoot sighting near Seattle was likely a black bear standing upright, a behavior common when bears have a hurt paw. The dense woods of the Pacific Northwest, described as a ‘box of q-tips,’ facilitate misidentification of moving shapes between trees. The speakers expressed strong skepticism toward recorded Bigfoot evidence, including the Patterson-Gimlin footage.
Flat Earth Conspiracy Theories
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  • Key Takeaway: Flat Earthers often cite biblical interpretations and perceived government cover-ups regarding space travel as reasons for their belief, despite overwhelming evidence of a spherical Earth.
  • Summary: The speakers dismissed the flat Earth theory, noting that pilots and snipers must account for the Earth’s curvature in their calculations. A key argument against the theory is that the Bible never explicitly states the Earth is flat, contradicting some adherents’ claims. The belief system is sometimes linked to schizophrenia or a desire to believe the government is hiding the existence of God and the firmament.
Antarctica Travel and Government Secrets
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  • Key Takeaway: A dedicated individual funds trips to Antarctica to prove the Earth’s roundness to skeptics, countering the myth that flying over the continent is prohibited.
  • Summary: One individual spends personal money flying people over Antarctica to demonstrate that it is traversable, debunking the idea of an impassable wall or secret WWII base there. However, the speakers concede that the government likely conducts secret experiments, possibly involving direct energy weapons or advanced neutrino detectors capable of affecting weather.
Erosion of Trust and Historical Lies
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  • Key Takeaway: Increased access to information, highlighted by events like the Epstein files and JFK revelations, has provided concrete reasons for the current generation to distrust the government more than previous ones.
  • Summary: The erosion of trust is amplified today because verifiable information exists to contradict official narratives regarding historical events like the Vietnam War and the Kennedy assassination. The speakers argue that the government controlled information in the 1960s, making lies easier, whereas today’s information access fuels skepticism. This environment makes people feel the world is terrible, often based on phone consumption rather than real-life interactions.
Nature vs. Digital Disconnection
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  • Key Takeaway: Living in remote, untainted natural environments like Montana fosters mental well-being and a sense of being ‘meant to live’ compared to urban life dominated by digital input.
  • Summary: The speakers contrast the anxiety induced by constant phone use with the calming effect of connecting with nature, suggesting that nature, not concrete, should be the novelty. They reference a documentary about a man living off the land near the Arctic Circle who found peace and natural living to be how humans are supposed to exist. Disconnecting from the phone quickly restores hope and makes everyday interactions feel good again.
AI Limitations vs. Human Artistry
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  • Key Takeaway: AI music generation is inherently derivative, learning only from existing online data, and lacks the capacity to appreciate or generate genuine human experiences like love, community, or the feeling behind a great song.
  • Summary: AI cannot learn from the real world, such as observing positive interactions at a grocery store, and will only perpetuate the worst aspects of humanity found online. While AI can create technically ‘incredible’ songs quickly, it is only remixing existing works, unlike human artists who create with genuine feeling. The audience’s tendency to abandon artists once they become too popular, like Coldplay, is cited as a silly human trait AI will not replicate.
Yellowstone Spinoff Promotion
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  • Key Takeaway: Luke Grimes expressed excitement for his role in the Yellowstone spin-off Marshals and acknowledged the necessity of dramatic plot turns, like his character’s wife’s death, to keep the narrative interesting.
  • Summary: Luke Grimes confirmed he enjoyed working with Kelsey Asbille, but noted that keeping a character perpetually happy would make for a poor show, necessitating conflict. The host praised Taylor Sheridan’s writing for knowing how to ’throw a monkey wrench into things’ to maintain viewer interest in the series.