The Toast

Say Less Bestie: Wednesday, March 4th, 2026

March 4, 2026

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  • The hosts are embracing personal maturation, evidenced by Jackie reading a book with her partner in silence and both discussing healthy habits like reading over screen time. 
  • The conversation touched upon the cultural impact of the TV show about Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy, noting that Sarah Pidgeon, who plays her, is the new face of the beauty brand Rhode, succeeding Hailey Bieber. 
  • The hosts discussed the drama surrounding Haley Glassman's reaction to past comments, concluding that Haley Glassman is now officially Jackie's enemy after accusing her of lying and making up screenshots. 
  • The hosts confirmed their plan to visit Disney, with one host expressing apprehension about the physical demands despite the other's enthusiasm. 
  • The upcoming Netflix reality competition, 'Squid Game: The VIP Challenge,' will feature a celebrity cast including Mel B, Dylan Efron, Kim Zolciak, and Tristan Thompson. 
  • The 'Summer House' recap focused heavily on Dara's arrival, Bailey's growing popularity as a potential future star, and the drama surrounding Jesse's lack of intention in his interactions with Sierra and Sarah. 

Segments

Morning Greetings and Hair Routine
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(00:00:03)
  • Key Takeaway: Jackie Oshry maintains a predictable weekly hair washing schedule that dictates her daily hairstyle.
  • Summary: Jackie Oshry described her weekly hair schedule, starting with a ‘blown out, Dyson Airwrapped’ look on day one, which she compares to wearing a wig. As the week progresses, her hair fades into oiliness, leading to a bun on Wednesday. Her current use of serums and oils has shortened the window between washes.
Maturation and Reading Habits
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(00:02:47)
  • Key Takeaway: Jackie Oshry and her partner successfully read for an hour in bed, leading to an early bedtime and a feeling of maturation.
  • Summary: Jackie received a new historical fiction book, ‘It Girl,’ from author Allison Pataki, whom she knows personally. She and her partner read for an hour, which felt quiet and mature compared to watching TV. Her husband particularly enjoyed the book’s multiple points of view, including one from an octopus.
Gen Z Slang and Summer House Recap
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(00:05:39)
  • Key Takeaway: Claudia Oshry is concerned that watching Gen Z TikTok content will negatively affect her speech patterns, contrasting with Jackie’s intellectual pursuits.
  • Summary: Claudia expressed concern over adopting Gen Z slang like ‘say less bestie’ after watching related TikToks, while Jackie noted she was ’leveling up’ by reading. The conversation briefly transitioned to a recap of the latest ‘Summer House’ episode, noting the introduction of a new cast member, Dara, who joined solo.
Purim Treats and Food Preferences
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(00:07:39)
  • Key Takeaway: Strawberry hamantaschen are ranked as the best traditional Purim cookie flavor, superior to chocolate and apricot.
  • Summary: The hosts celebrated Purim, with Jackie enjoying hamantaschen, specifically favoring strawberry filling over chocolate or apricot. Jackie noted that Ashkenazi Jewish cuisine is generally not her favorite, contrasting it with the Moroccan food she enjoyed growing up.
Apologies, Forgiveness, and H. Joel Osmond
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(00:13:05)
  • Key Takeaway: Both hosts find genuine apologies incredibly powerful, citing Hailey Joel Osmond’s heartfelt apology after using an anti-Semitic slur as the ultimate example of accountability.
  • Summary: Jackie stated that the power of a genuine apology absolves her of past feelings, making her feel guilty for having caused the need for the apology. They referenced Hailey Joel Osmond’s widely praised apology following his arrest for using a slur, noting that such accountability is rare. The segment concluded that demanding apologies without offering forgiveness undermines the power of reconciliation.
Fast Five Intro and Ad Reads
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(00:16:25)
  • Key Takeaway: Taylor Farms Chop Salad Kits simplify healthy eating by offering pre-washed and pre-chopped ingredients in innovative flavors.
  • Summary: The ‘Fast Five’ segment was introduced, sponsored by Taylor Farms Chop Salad Kits, which aim to remove the labor involved in salad preparation. BetterHelp was also promoted as a resource for women’s emotional well-being during International Women’s Month, offering online therapy matching.
Rhode Model Change and Kennedy Show Impact
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(00:20:30)
  • Key Takeaway: Sarah Pidgeon, star of the JFK Jr. and Carolyn Bessette story, is the new face of Rhode, marking a significant move for the brand to establish an identity beyond Hailey Bieber.
  • Summary: The hosts praised Sarah Pidgeon’s beauty and talent, noting her background in Broadway and her decision to remain blonde for the role. They believe Rhode is attempting to transition from being solely Hailey Bieber’s brand by appointing a new face, similar to how Skims uses various models. The cultural effect of the Kennedy show is seen as a net positive, resurging interest in the dynasty, despite Jack Schlossberg’s apparent disapproval.
Eric Nam’s Revenge Music Video
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(00:29:56)
  • Key Takeaway: Eric Nam released a new single, ‘How the Fire Started,’ featuring fellow ‘The Traitors’ contestants Rob Rausch, ‘Ron,’ Jam Jam, Natalie, and Maura, depicting his revenge against Rob.
  • Summary: The music video centers on Eric Nam traveling to Rob Rausch’s ranch to right wrongs after Rob betrayed him in ‘The Traitors’ game for strategic reasons. Claudia Oshry admitted to forgetting Eric Nam was a singer, and upon listening to a clip, deemed the song good. The segment also briefly touched on the NBA controversy regarding the Houston Rockets honoring the strip club Magic City.
Love Thy Nader Season 2 Delays
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(00:32:39)
  • Key Takeaway: The long delay for ‘Love Thy Nader’ Season 2, which was teased with footage of Bezos’ wedding, is concerning, despite the production now involving ‘Vanderpump Rules’ producer Alex Baskin.
  • Summary: Alex Baskin’s 32 Flavors production company is boarding Season 2, which is seen as a positive sign for the show’s quality. However, the extended wait, which has allowed other reality shows to air multiple seasons, risks making the previously filmed content irrelevant. The hosts urged Disney to release the old footage while they wait for a new season produced with Baskin’s expertise.
Disney Trip Planning
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(00:44:12)
  • Key Takeaway: One host is hesitant about the physical demands of a Disney trip despite the other’s eagerness to experience it.
  • Summary: Ben wants to become a parent primarily to go to Disney, and the hosts agreed to go, though one anticipates loving the elements but hating the physical exertion. The planning committee for the trip will consist of Ben, Olivia, and the other host’s husband, who loves Disney. They plan to vlog the entire experience when they finally book the trip.
Celebrity Squid Game Casting
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(00:46:01)
  • Key Takeaway: Netflix announced the cast for ‘Squid Game: The VIP Challenge,’ a reality show spin-off featuring celebrities.
  • Summary: The reality show spin-off, ‘Squid Game: The VIP Challenge,’ features a celebrity cast including Mel B, Dylan Efron, Kim Zolciak, and Tristan Thompson. The original ‘Squid Game’ is a scripted show about financially desperate people competing in deadly children’s games for a large cash prize. Dylan Efron is noted for consistently appearing on high-profile ensemble reality shows like ‘Dancing with the Stars’ and ‘The Traitors.’
House of Villains Clip
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(00:50:04)
  • Key Takeaway: A clip from Peacock’s ‘House of Villains’ revealed Tom Sandoval practicing his entrance line in the car.
  • Summary: The show ‘House of Villains’ places reality TV villains in one house, and Tom Sandoval is a participant. A clip showed Sandoval practicing his line, ‘I guess it’s come to this,’ multiple times in the car before delivering it flawlessly upon exiting. The host noted that Sandoval was reportedly the first person eliminated from the competition.
Summer House Recap
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(00:53:19)
  • Key Takeaway: Bailey is emerging as a fan favorite on ‘Summer House’ due to her vulnerability and awkward attempts at flirting.
  • Summary: Dara is interested in KJ, while the hosts are fond of Bailey, who is reportedly being called the future of the show for being honest and vulnerable about her lack of confidence post-relationship. The core drama involves Jesse asking West for permission to make out with Sarah, which offended Sierra because Jesse moves without intention, contradicting his stated desire for a serious relationship. The hosts criticize Jesse and other Bravo men for being unserious reality TV ‘man children.’
Kyle and Amanda Analysis
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(00:57:16)
  • Key Takeaway: The hosts discussed the phenomenon of women defending their partners’ public bad behavior, referencing Kyle and Amanda’s relationship dynamic.
  • Summary: The hosts referenced a ‘The Cut’ article titled ‘I Love My Husband Who Hates Me,’ which discusses women defending their partners’ poor behavior, referencing Kyle and Amanda. Amanda is reportedly receiving numerous brand deals post-breakup drama, following an ‘Ariana Madix template’ where women gain opportunities after relationship turmoil. The hosts prefer Amanda defending Kyle, as his behavior hasn’t drastically changed, over partners who publicly expose their spouse’s worst actions after the fact.