How to Be a Better Human

How to experience the world like a good dog (w/ Alexandra Horowitz)

January 12, 2026

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  • Dogs perceive the world immediately and viscerally through their powerful sense of smell, which connects directly to emotion and instinct centers in the brain, allowing them to 'time travel' through scent trails. 
  • The common 'guilty look' in dogs is not evidence of guilt over a past action, but rather an appeasing or submissive response prompted by the owner's perceived expectation of wrongdoing. 
  • Humans can learn to be more present and notice the world differently by adopting alternative perspectives, such as walking at a dog's pace or engaging with others who focus on different sensory details (like geology or typography). 

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Dog’s Olfactory World
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  • Key Takeaway: A dog’s sense of smell is vastly more powerful than human sight, capable of distinguishing ingredients in a stadium and detecting hormones via the vomeronasal organ.
  • Summary: Dogs can smell perfume ingredients in an enclosed stadium and use their vomeronasal nasal organ to detect hormones, identifying emotional states, pregnancy, or sickness. Because olfaction bypasses the thalamus to connect directly to emotion and instinct centers, a dog’s perception is more immediate and visceral than ours. A dog’s nose can traverse time, reading the past in tracks and the future in the breeze.
Perspective and ‘On Looking’
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  • Key Takeaway: Seeing the world through a dog’s perspective, particularly their nose, inspired the author’s book ‘On Looking,’ which focuses on perspective opening exercises.
  • Summary: The book ‘On Looking’ originated from trying to see the world through a dog’s eyes, leading to walks with people who had different ways of seeing. This exercise emphasized perspective, which is crucial when studying non-humans, and served as an ongoing empathy opening exercise. Walking at a dog’s pace forces attention to details like fire hydrants and tree stumps that are usually ignored.
Guilt vs. Appeasement in Dogs
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  • Key Takeaway: The ‘guilty look’ displayed by dogs is a response to the owner’s perceived scolding energy, not an internal feeling of guilt over a transgression.
  • Summary: The study on dog guilt found that the look (ears back, low tail wag) was prompted by whether the owner thought the dog ate forbidden food, even if the dog hadn’t eaten it. If the dog ate the food but the owner didn’t notice, the look was absent. This look is an appeasing gesture designed to avoid anticipated punishment based on reading human behavior.
Laughter, Presence, and Dogs
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  • Key Takeaway: Laughter forces presence, and dogs are excellent facilitators of presence and humor because their simple, immediate pleasures draw humans into the moment.
  • Summary: Humor is often found in the delight of noticing details, which forces one to be present, a state shared when laughing with someone. Dogs have a ‘play pant,’ a breathy exhalation similar to chimpanzee play vocalizations, which is distinct from panting due to heat or stress. Primal jokes, like mock attacks or chasing, elicit laughter in both human children and dogs.
Evolutionary Roots of Grins and Play
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  • Key Takeaway: The human smile/grin shares an evolutionary link with the chimpanzee’s ‘fear grin,’ an appeasing gesture used to tone down perceived tension.
  • Summary: Chimpanzees display a big grin when worried, using it as an appeasing gesture toward tension, similar to how humans might nervously smile in uncomfortable social situations. Dogs, like children, learn play signals; initiating play without a proper play signal (like a play bow) reads as an attack. This highlights the importance of context and signaling in social interactions across species.
Prescriptive Steps for Noticing More
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  • Key Takeaway: To enhance observation skills, walk with experts in specific fields (like geology or fashion) and ask them to point out what they see, or focus observation on a single category like gutters or hats.
  • Summary: Walking with others who have specialized focus allows one to see more of the world by following their gaze, even if the observer lacks the expertise. Focusing on a single category, like different types of gutters, scaffolds the mind into becoming a bigger observer by focusing sensory modalities. Shifting perspective by getting down to a dog’s altitude reveals visual differences, such as blinding reflections on museum glass for children.
Dog Emotions and Human Contagion
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  • Key Takeaway: Dogs are highly sensitive to human emotional states via smell, and these emotions, such as stress or happiness, can be contagious, influencing the dog’s subsequent behavior.
  • Summary: Studies show dogs can distinguish the smell of stress and happiness in people, suggesting emotional contagion. When handlers in agility training became stressed, their dogs also became stressed, indicating emotional transfer. A person’s stress or uncertainty when approaching a dog is visible through body language and chemical signals, making the dog nervous.
Applying Lab Lessons at Home
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  • Key Takeaway: Behaviors often labeled as ‘misbehavior’ in dogs (like jumping on guests) make perfect sense when viewed from the dog’s perspective as excited, investigative behavior.
  • Summary: Observations from home often inspire lab research, such as studying why dogs shake when changing activities, which was found to occur at behavioral switches. Viewing a dog’s excitement upon a guest’s arrival as ‘good dog behavior’ rather than rudeness requires adopting their perspective (e.g., investigating new smells via the mouth). Perspective-taking is a vital exercise for understanding both canine and teenage behavior.